Close your legs, Kill the relationship

There will be no sex unless the woman allows it, period. In most relationships, the man is ready from day one-but it’s not happening until she is ready. Outside of a relationship men are always on the prowl, looking, searching, for their next piece-and will stop and nearly nothing to get it once it has been spotted. And even when a sexual relationship has been established, the woman still has the power to say yes or no, even to cut it off at will-but for every action there is a reaction. The point of this blog, once you start you can’t stop, or so too does the relationship.

Sometimes things happen in the mind of the women that cause an abrupt change in their sexual behavior, and not in a way that would benefit their male counterpart. I’m talking about when they all of a sudden want to cut off the sex. There is one thing that you women must understand about men, MEN LOVE SEX, AND A LOT OF IT!!! Yeah he waited patiently for the first time, but you will see that kind of patience no more after that-he will undoubtedly unleash his full sex drive upon you, to the likes of which the inexperienced have never seen before. So in understanding that, you better be darn ready for what you about to get yourself into when you allow him into you for the first time. You are about to accept the responsibility of making sure he is always pleased. The dynamics of the relationship are about to change, and not entirely in your benefit! But we will get more into that later

For whatever reasons you may want to put a pause on the sex, be it newfound religion, fear of it becoming the foundation of you relationship, etc-please know that you are doing it at the risk of losing him. It’s okay to want to stop having sex because of your religious convictions, but don’t expect him to feel the same if he hasn’t had his own revelation; and trying to force one on him won’t help because his mind is on SEX, and we men generally don’t think well when that’s the case. Don’t snatch away sex because you think it is going to become all the relationship is about, believe me it’s a phase, and once that man is satisfied, and has taken his nap-you can get anything out of him. But a sexually frustrated man will produce nothing for your benefit. Sexual frustration causes us to think, why should I do this for her when she giving me what I need in rations? Or has cut it off?

So let me finish up because I know most can’t read too long past this far. But the point is-when you cut off sex, you cut off the relationship. Not saying it’s wrong, but just be prepared for it. He won’t just outright say that was a reason, but a major breakdown will occur in the relationship-and he will find a way out or he will cheat; just like women get what they need outside of a relationship-so do men. Of course I am speaking generally here; there are a few men out there that have that kind of patience, will, and respect-but good luck finding one!

Close your legs kill the relationship.

Remind me to write about doing it when you “Don’t feel like it!”