6th month MAN

I hate building up relationships, just to watch them fail, so after a few failed relationships and a broken heart or two-i decided to become a 6th month man. A 6th month man meaning, i aim to be the the same peson i am on the first date, as i will be after six months of being together or, keeping it real.

It’s not easy, especially for men, because in the beginning women are the chosers. So if we want to be chosen we must be on our best behavior. We have to appear to be so many things at one time, handsome, smart, paid, honest, commiting, and the list goes on. And because we men are selective primarliy by what we see, women only have to be good-looking (at least in the beginning).

But i think we only harm ourselves when we do that, because that facade can only last so long. It’s around three to four months into the relationship that men start to fall off, and the woman is saying “why you don’t treat me like you used to!?!?!?!? you used to be this, you used to be that!” be in reality, all he was, was an image of what she was looking for in a man.

Again, it’s hard to not put up that image, but i’ve found that it only leads to disapointement and heartbrake. Besides, if you want somebody to love you for who you are, wouldnt it only makes sense to be…WHO YOU ARE???

A lot of first dates may not go to well with me lol, and that’s ok, because everybody is not meant for everybody, and good friends come out of it. But if people just keep it real from the beginning, i believe they will have a better chance of finding the one for them.